Extracts from Wu Dan Ru's Journal (9)

对女人大方是绝招

一个男人如果愿意大方，他必然能够赢得女人心。很多骗色之徒，都已经懂得这个技巧。

以前的女人比较容易被“迷信”所骗，只要扯到骗财骗色，常与神棍有关。只要说，你背后有婴灵，或不改运的话全家会倒楣、不斩桃花感情会不顺……女人多半会姑且听之，意志消沉的就会上当。

从现在的感情诈骗案看来，很多年轻的网络骗子，似乎都研究过女性心理学:不管时代怎么变化，女人都容易被男人的慷慨所打动。如果男人长得又不差，她很容易觉得在爱情路上中了大奖，理智就全会被编织未来幸福梦想的冲动所取代。

男人常说:“女人最好骗。”女人哪里好骗?通常为了漂亮，为了感情。而女人是懂得感激与报恩的动物，只要她有一点喜欢你，而你对她先施一点小惠，她常会以为，自己是进了皇宫、即将遇到王子的灰姑娘。

New Job, New Environment

I've left STT for 2 weeks and proceed on with my career of a greater height in an MNC company.

I would say the environment and culture of the new company is somewhere in between my first and second jobs.

First job environment was a very disciplined one. Everyone was focusing on doing their work.

Second job environment was a very carefree and hilarious one.

I'm coping fine and well in current company. The only thing I dread is doing the management reports which are so tedious and time consuming. The accounting software isn't really user-friendly and information needs to be extracted from many sources before the reports can be done. However, the company is looking into the problem and thinking of how to improve the current situation.

I find myself no longer late for work... hehe.. maybe it's due to a change in the environment. In fact, I reach office before 9am! :P

I am actually quite lucky with my jobs as I get to use brand new computers when I joined those companies. The same goes for this company. They bought a new desktop computer for me even before I started work :)

Yesterday was STT quarterly company gathering and my ex boss invited me to the BBQ on my last day with them. I do miss some of the ex colleagues. My new colleagues and I usually go to Maxwell Food Centre and Chinatown Food Centre for lunch. Whenever I pass by near to STT office, I would have this longing feeling of bumping into them. I guess these 3 years and 10 months in STT have given me a lot of memories.

It was nice to have met up with Sam, Uncle, Shermaine, Jason and the rest. Everyone enjoyed themselves at the BBQ. It was indeed an enjoyable time with them too! :)

Kungfu Panda!

HP and I went to watch Kungfu Panda on Sunday. I think it was more of a lame show, though some parts of it was quite amusing.

Poem

Each day passes by like wind,
but each thought of you stays on.

Each day speaks of new changes,
but each thought of you never change.

Each day gives way for new thing,
but each thought of you is always new.

If thoughts of you evolve from love,

let hope of having you evolve from each day.

Poem

Morning breeze is a sign, sign of a brand new day.

Evening ray is a sign, sign of an end to day.

Between them is life of thoughts, thoughts of you which fills my day.

Every thoughts never fail to bring, bring tears of longing just for you.

鄭欣宜 - 真的愛你

在我生命中的每一天

Extracts from Wu Dan Ru's Journal (8)

千万别像男人的老妈

每个女人都怕男人说她像自己的妈。而每个男人也都很害怕: 情人越来越像老妈。据我观察，男人会觉得情人越来越像妈，并不是她变得唠叨，关键在于: 他很不舒服，或他情绪上需要安慰时，她就像一个老妈对待成年的儿子一样，只出嘴不出手，用话语让他的情绪雪上加霜。在他很累时，还要教训他，说一大堆话疲劳轰炸。

如果对话能改得温暖而充满关切一些。或许或许她就不会让他感觉像他的妈了。

“还没吃饭吗?我帮你弄点东西吃好吗?”

“感冒了吗？好可怜，我帮你拿药好吗?”

“好要工作啊?我真舍不得你这么辛苦。”

同样的意思，但听者感受差很多。

Missing Someone You Love

Each day I yearn for you, every day every night.

Living a life without you, what will it be all about?

Each day when I think of you, all I wish is glimpse of you.

Not knowing when will I see you, a life will just be one of pain.

What Are Kisses About?

Awake from sleep every morning, your lovely face is all I see.

Lying sweetly besides me, heart within yearns more of you.

As your eyes gently open up, what greets is a lovely kiss.

When my lips start to meet yours, what a heavenly exchange?

A Poem About Love

Distance between us though short, but your presence seems so far.

Your life may not shine for everyone, but it definitely lights my heart.

What you had done may seemed trivial, is a spark that set me on fire.

What you had said may seemed usual, are actions that melt my very being.

Nothing you had done, will make me close the door.

For the door to my heart is not close, always open awaiting for you.

If life is all about love, let me be your life.